The First Day of School

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Blog­ger’s note: Like my last entry, most of this blog comes from a book I wrote 20 years ago enti­tled “Is This For a Grade?” I am in the process of repub­lish­ing that book as an e‑book, but anno­tat­ing it with my cur­rent obser­va­tions and opin­ions. I hope to pub­lish this update the day that I retire, if not sooner.

The more things change, the more they stay the same.

(Hav­ing reread this chap­ter, I find I have noth­ing to change. Some­how, that gives me a com­fort­ing sense of con­ti­nu­ity. I still enjoy the first day of school, and it is still most­ly for the rea­sons list­ed below. But this year I have an entire­ly new per­spec­tive on the last day of school. Please read the “After­word” at the end of this chapter.)

I like first days. Oh, I can’t say that as the sum­mer wears down and the next school year looms ahead I get all chirpy, but once I’m there and that first bell rings, I know I am where I belong. Not a bad feeling.

I like stand­ing in the hall­way in front of my door when that first bell rings. New stu­dents, new cou­ples, new clothes.

The fresh­men are eas­i­est to spot. Poor fish. They look so scared, peer­ing at the num­bers over each class­room door, try­ing des­per­ate­ly to stay out of any­body’s way, anx­ious to deposit them­selves into a class­room, any class­room, and be safe. (Yes, I sup­pose I am ide­al­iz­ing a lit­tle. There is also the new breed of fresh­men, anx­ious to do noth­ing but acquire a baad rep­u­ta­tion as soon as pos­si­ble.) But upper­class­men still enjoy mis­di­rect­ing fresh­men, and sell­ing them pho­ny maps and hall pass­es, and har­rass­ing them for step­ping on the school seal, and all of that stuff that makes high school high school.

Sum­mer romance remains as con­stant as William Shake­speare’s poet­ry. The wise teacher makes it a point to stay very detached from the intri­ca­cies of the dat­ing scene with­in a high school stu­dent body. Still, we can’t help but notice, and to judge accord­ing­ly. I always groan inward­ly when I see a sweet, young girl whom I taught the pre­vi­ous year tucked under the arm of a boy of ques­tion­able morals whose pri­ma­ry form of exer­cise involves bend­ing an elbow to raise a beer can to his lips. I feel equal­ly mys­ti­fied, but a lot hap­pi­er, upon observ­ing young­sters expe­ri­enc­ing love for the first time. We tend to for­get that not every­one comes to high school played out and jad­ed. The sight of two young peo­ple com­plete­ly caught up in each oth­er, obliv­i­ous to oth­ers, whole­heart­ed­ly devot­ed, is enough to make me wish I was young again (but not for long). Because you want it to last for them (and you know it won’t).

Ah yes, new clothes. The first day of school ranks right behind the first day after Christ­mas vaca­tion for haute cou­ture. The natives will be stylin’. One of my ten­nis play­ers came into our first class this year brag­ging that he’d spent $150 the pre­vi­ous day on school clothes.

“What did you get?” I asked him.
“Two shirts and a pair of pants.”
(I have three chil­dren head­ed for high school, and I’m scared!)

I like to watch them (the dread­ed them ) come into my class­room. Some move imme­di­ate­ly to the back of the room, seek­ing that point far­thest away from me, as if I have her­pes or hal­i­to­sis, hop­ing (in vain) that I will allow them to keep their dis­tance for the rest of eter­ni­ty. Oth­ers sit front and cen­ter, perky as petu­nias, eyes bright and eager, like des­per­ate can­di­dates at a job inter­view. Most think noth­ing of me, eyes dart­ing around the room scop­ing out who else will share their Eng­lish class and seat­ing them­selves accord­ing­ly. The pret­ty girls nev­er sit alone.

I like to see what they bring to class on that first day. There are always a few who trav­el light, hav­ing already lost their sched­ules and fail­ing to pro­duce even a pen­cil or piece of paper, should the teacher (out­ra­geous­ly) want to get right down to busi­ness. It’s easy to spot the ones whose moth­ers still play an active role in their lives. New book bag, orga­nized note­book, two of every­thing. It’s fun watch­ing how quick­ly they can trash their moth­er’s best efforts. But the ones who real­ly amaze me are those kids who man­age, on that very first day, to look as if they’ve been attend­ing class­es the past six months. You’d think they had moved out of their homes to come back to school, their book bags loaded down with every imag­in­able thing. Put a brand new text­book in their hands and watch it trans­mo­gri­fy instan­ta­neous­ly. And they can do it with new desks, new clothes, new shoes …

I have a fair­ly stan­dard set of pro­ce­dures I fol­low on the first day, some imposed by the admin­is­tra­tion, oth­ers invent­ed by me. Tak­ing roll, nat­u­ral­ly. Only three things real­ly con­cern me regard­ing the class roster–the ratio of boys to girls, whether I have any repeaters from pre­vi­ous years, and if I have drawn any of the known troublemakers/juvenile delin­quents that attend our school. Hav­ing a good male/female bal­ance is always a good sign for a class. Hav­ing an over­abun­dance of boys can be hell­ish. (This year I have fif­teen boys and three girls in my sec­ond peri­od class–it’s get­ting pret­ty testy in there.) I resent repeaters. My class is usu­al­ly fun, and it is not hard to pass if you do the work. If a stu­dent is a repeater, it means he had the fun with­out doing the work. I hate that. As far as the trou­ble­mak­ers go, there’s not much I can do. On that first day, I try to let them know that I know who they are, and that I’m will­ing to with­hold per­son­al judg­ment. Some of those kids do bet­ter in my class than they do in most oth­er class­es. Many of them … well, you can’t win them all.

Then it’s time for class­room rules. I dis­cour­age eat­ing and drink­ing, and they have to spit their gum out if I see them chew­ing (it makes their faces look ugly). I try to enforce the school’s tardy pol­i­cy (which is always chang­ing and nev­er effec­tive). I dis­cour­age peo­ple from leav­ing my class­room, but I am not with­out com­pas­sion. I have sat trapped in a class­room before, with a blad­der or bow­el about to explode, and I would­n’t wish that on any­one. If nature calls, we must respond. If nature calls fre­quent­ly, see a doctor.

On to the seat­ing chart. I do that the same way every year. They all put their names in a hat, and I select a Van­na White to draw. As she picks names, I give a lit­tle speech about fate and des­tiny, how who you sit next to in Eng­lish II class could end up being one of the most sig­nif­i­cant events of your life, cer­tain­ly not some­thing to be con­trolled by a mere teacher, but rather some­thing to be left up to what­ev­er High­er Pow­er you choose to believe in. I get down­right flow­ery about it. (Inci­den­tal­ly, if the chart does­n’t work out, I don’t hes­i­tate to change it.)

I end that first day of class try­ing to find out about the peo­ple I will be teach­ing. I use a per­son­al infor­ma­tion card, which con­tains rel­e­vant infor­ma­tion (home and work phone num­bers, extracur­ric­u­lar activ­i­ties) and irrel­e­vant infor­ma­tion (their all-time favorite movie, what they expect to be doing in ten years). What I ask about them, I tell about myself.

It all boils down to mak­ing a first impres­sion. I want them to look for­ward to my class. I want them to feel it is a place to be active, not pas­sive. No doubt that’s a dan­ger­ous approach. Unleash­ing youth­ful ener­gy is an invi­ta­tion to chaos. But if I can get them sit­ting in sec­ond peri­od think­ing, Oh good, I have Eng­lish next … if I can have them enter my class­room with a pos­i­tive atti­tude about being there … if I can cajole them to think about what we are doing — then, I have a step up on most. And a teacher always looks for an edge.

I like lots of oth­er things about the first day of school. I like see­ing the new mem­bers of the fac­ul­ty, men­tal­ly gaug­ing to myself whether they are cut out for this line of work or not. I like see­ing which teach­ers share my con­fer­ence peri­od. Who is in the fac­ul­ty lounge at that time will deter­mine how much of my con­fer­ence peri­od I spend down there, and how much I spend in my room, and, con­se­quent­ly, how much I will accom­plish dur­ing that peri­od. (Any teacher with sense avoids the fac­ul­ty lounge like the plague! There is a good rea­son it’s called a lounge.) I like teas­ing fifth year seniors if I am friend­ly with them. I like get­ting mail out of my teacher mail­box again. I like ten­nis practice.

But what I like most is the pro­gres­sion. Every year starts with a first day, and every year ends with a last day. The alpha and the omega. The first day is fun. The last day, ah, that’s anoth­er thing entire­ly. On the last day, we enter celes­tial realms.

After­word: If all goes accord­ing to plan, this next year will be my last as a teacher. Since I have had so much enjoy­ment, ful­fill­ment and reward in my career choice, I am unable to explain why I am so anx­ious to leave it. But I am. The last last day will be more than celestial—it will be nir­van­ic.

Comments

  • oh how I remem­ber that first day in your class — your first year at Clemens. your class was a fresh breeze com­pared to so many of the class­es I was talk­ing that yr. Who knew that a TEACHER could be cool rather than a stuffy old per­son. Lol.

    Gerena20 September, 2013
  • well said.… could­n’t be more accurate.

    Steve S28 August, 2013
  • Today was my daugh­ters first day of col­lege. A col­lege FRESHMAN! As I read your blog, I could pic­ture so many things that her pro­fes­sors were prob­a­bly notic­ing about their new stu­dents today. I talked to her this evening & she said the first day was awful. She was scared to death of her pub­lic speak­ing class because it is, well…public speak­ing. She’s ner­vous about her crit­i­cal think­ing class because, well…it’s crit­i­cal think­ing. She also has some kind of arts & films class which she only took because she had to. Con­grats on this being your last year! You were an awe­some teacher 30 some­thing years ago, and I’m sure you still are! Thank you for shar­ing your life with me all these years later!

    Annette Wehner26 August, 2013

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