1) The Avett Brothers – definition of muse: a source of inspiration. They’ve been doing it for fifteen years (my time, not theirs). The tune always catches me first, but then the words elevate the tune. I almost always listen to them alone. They are becoming more spiritual now, which is reaffirming to me.
2) Tim Duncan – athletes are artists, and Tim Duncan is the consummate. It goes so way beyond success. Such dignity and humility! He proves that art involves depth more than flair.
3) The Graduate – my favorite movie—I don’t mean because it was entertaining, but because it was brilliant (also incredibly entertaining). It shifted my perspective on where I was going in life, and then it shifted it again. And, ah, Elaine… (It is on Netflix or Prime right now—watch it!)
4) To Kill a Mockingbird – I taught it for six years and never got tired. One of the most beautiful moments a teacher gets is when you suddenly have a revelation about what you’re supposedly teaching. Every English teacher has heard countless discussions of the Great American Novel (or has it been written yet?). I stopped looking when I got here, although my mind is still open.
5) A great TV series – one that grabs your heart and your mind…that you wait for week by week…or if you got there late, you stay up extra hours because you have to find out what happens next…where the series finale is almost like a break-up. Lonesome Dove and Mad Men and Downton Abbey and Game of Thrones come to mind, but there are countless others. Any recommendations?
6) Female authors – I confess that I never used to read them (except Agatha Christie—I’ve read her since adolescence). Then I joined a book group around 20 years ago, and it was usually me and about five or six women, and we took turns picking books, and I discovered the brilliance. Louise Erdrich and Joanne Harris and Anne Proulx and Carol Shields and Anne Lamott and … (And, of course, Harper Lee).
7) Spotify – (or Pandora or iTunes or whatever—this is not a commercial endorsement) – It is miraculous that I can type in the name of a song or an album or an artist, and the music pops up, and I can listen to whatever I select. From any era I choose. For just $16/month ( and I have five relatives on my account)! This is on my Top Ten Benefits of Technology list.
8) E‑books – I’ve not been won over yet. Give me a comfortable reading place and I will take a hard copy. But they really open up the opportunity to read in bed, which is something I’ve always enjoyed. And if money’s not an issue (I’ve always been a library person), you have access to every book on the planet.
9) Art museums – I have a sister who is a docent and several others that could be. I’m not even close. I take my museums as subjective experiences. I walk into a room and see what I like. Karen and I sometimes play a game: “If we could take home one item, which would we choose?” Then we share our answers. I have fun in art museums.
10) Theater – I swear I am not showing off. These last two entries sound like a cultured person, and I am not that. I like sports and TV. But I’ve been lucky enough to see the big-time (it doesn’t have to be NY): Hamilton and others. I’ve sampled local theater: Bright Star (by Steve Martin and Edie Brickell) in Dallas. What I see in theater is talent and effort—they are really trying up there! I had several kids in my Creative Writing class one year, also in theater, and they won the State Championship in One Act Play. Watching them was as cool as watching Hamilton.
11) Adele – this might be my most ridiculous choice. I hardly ever listen to her. Reason: her songs have a powerful way of getting stuck in my head—and I don’t like songs stuck in my head. But she has the clearest, smoothest, truest voice I can think of.
12) Peace Like a River – my favorite Christian novel (that is such a disservice—it is about a man who is a christian). And also about a real family—and how that is supposed to work—and, of course, about God and man.
13) Leonard Cohen – My former students know about Bob Dylan—I discovered him early. Leonard I have had to grow into. My conclusion: two equal poets and observers of the human condition.
14) Sculpture gardens – two in New Orleans. We go there on walks, my brother and Gert, me and Karen. I love it there. It’s like man and God have gotten together to display their skills, and they are riffing with each other. I’ve always wanted to back by myself and pray, but I never do.
15) Brian Doyle – my favorite author. If you like fiction, read Mink River. If you like true spirituality, read The Book of Uncommon Prayer. If you like both, keep reading.
Another fun one to write. Art lifts us up. It’s good to keep rising.
TV Show recommendations: FLEABAG (on Prime) and KILLING EVE (Hulu). Both won a ton of awards. Both written by the same woman (an incredibly talented woman who fills me with love and jealousy). Two totally different shows. You can watch both seasons of Fleabag in a day and you’d have a wonderful experience. Or you’d hate it and get mad at me for wasting your time. Who knows.
I have a song for you to listen to: How to be Yours by Chris Renzema. It’s a beautiful conversation between a man and God.
I don’t know how to enjoy Leonard Cohen. Maybe one day I will. It just…I…I can’t.
Also, read In the Altogether: Trusting God with All We Hide From the World. Pretty good book by a cool guy.