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Keeping a vow

On July 2, 2019 I made a vow to God. The plan had always been that when I retired from teach­ing, I would con­cen­trate on my writ­ing. But I had been retired for five years and had hard­ly writ­ten any­thing (except my prayers). Had I deceived myself all this time about being a writer? I […]

A movie that changed my life

Art does more than enter­tain. At its best, it ele­vates. And so, I ask, what is the most impact­ful movie that you ever saw…the one that changed your way of think­ing, your per­cep­tion of the world and your role in it. Sev­er­al come to mind for me (2001: A Space Odyssey, Ben Hur, King of […]

Spiritual dryness

…all is van­i­ty and striv­ing after wind…”  It has crept up on me the last week or so. I can rec­og­nize it, but I’m not very good at com­bat­ing it. It’s a dis­turb­ing malaise—a vague uneasy feel­ing of lethar­gy. I still believe the same things—it’s just like it’s tacked up on a bul­letin board rather than […]

My old-fashioned

This one is more about pain relief than spir­i­tu­al upliftment…which is okay in the time of Coro­na. I want to write about my favorite drink: the Old-fash­ioned. This is how I make mine: The glass is impor­tant. I like a util­i­tar­i­an glass, some­thing that sits on the counter solidly—nothing del­i­cate or flutey (see pho­to), and […]

Bond. James Bond. (My paean to reading)

As a retired Eng­lish teacher, one of the most dis­tress­ing obser­va­tions I can make about Amer­i­can youth (then and now, I believe) is that they don’t want to read. Oh, there were flur­ries of hope: The Twi­light series (if you call that hope) and Har­ry Pot­ter, and…and…that’s about it. When I used to ask in […]

What I endorse: the corona version

This is my third “endorse” post—I used endorse­ments as a writ­ing exer­cise in my Cre­ative Writ­ing class­es. You just tell the world about things you like. My first one was about every­day things, like rasp­ber­ries and polar bears. My sec­ond post was the artis­tic ver­sion, fea­tur­ing artists like Tim Dun­can and Leonard Cohen. This one […]

How are you doing?

Intro­spec­tion is usu­al­ly a healthy activity—even more­so in the time of Coro­na. Covid-19 has affect­ed our lives in many dif­fer­ent ways, but we do share one com­mon­al­i­ty: all of our lives have been great­ly affect­ed. Every one of us can say: I’ve nev­er been through any­thing like this before. And it affects every­thing about us—our […]

The right to vote

This is total­ly non-par­ti­san. I want every sin­gle per­son who reads this to vote. I want every sin­gle per­son who reads this to encour­age every sin­gle per­son they know to vote. My goal is for this elec­tion to be the year that more peo­ple vot­ed than ever before. I want every sin­gle state to make […]

My Coronavirus Questions

I don’t count the num­ber of quar­an­tine days, but I know it has been a lot. These are the things I won­der about: –This is a plague of bib­li­cal pro­por­tions. What is God’s point of view? –When does per­son­al safe­ty become obses­sive? –Is this the Dar­win­ian con­cept of “thin­ning the herd”? –Should Trump be giv­en a pass for […]

My Bucket List

Lots of peo­ple have buck­et lists. Some are quite obses­sive about check­ing the items off. My approach is more casu­al. This buck­et list is prob­a­bly about ten years old. I used to do a Buck­et List assign­ment in my Advanced Cre­ative Writ­ing class, so, of course, I had to do mine. I came across it […]

Love in the Time of Corona

To my for­mer stu­dents (and any­one inter­est­ed): Do you remem­ber the ques­tion­naires, sur­veys, quizzes, etc. we used to take in Cre­ative Writ­ing as learn­ing activ­i­ties (amuse­ments, if you pre­fer)? My con­tri­bu­tion to the quar­an­tine is resurrecting/updating one as a pos­si­ble indi­vid­ual or group activ­i­ty. Only rules are the answers need to come from your heads, […]

Loving God (the first part of the sum of the commandments)

It is stat­ed clear­ly in Matthew 22:37…love God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind…and love your neigh­bor as your­self. I’m using the Bible, but I want to take the broad­er per­spec­tive. If we rec­og­nize we have a Cre­ator (no one has exact­ly the same per­spec­tive on that), […]

Zooming with the Texas Malmgrens

It was such a pleas­ant evening…hanging out with my wife and my three kids and their spous­es, hav­ing drinks. I had a cab and Karen a blush…Beth was hav­ing white wine…Nate and Annal­isa went with margaritas…Zack and Kallie, Texas Whiskey. We talked about every­thing: our cir­cum­stances, our fam­i­lies, good enter­tain­ment, pol­i­tics (Malm­grens always talk politics), […]

Going out the door…

We are all going through it, more or less ( more, I pray). We’ve all got the same instruc­tions. The heroes are the ones who have to go out there—answering the call of duty. They go out because they put the needs of oth­ers above their own well-being. We have to pray for them. The […]

COVID-19: is there a positive side?

Please do not think I am mak­ing light of tragedy—this is a human cat­a­stro­phe. Our world is suf­fer­ing. If I know my Bible, this is not an uncom­mon his­tor­i­cal occur­rence. It is how we respond as a nation that deter­mines the direc­tion this coun­try is going in. So how do we turn the coro­na virus […]

My back porch

I love spring­time. Since my boy­hood, it has been my favorite. I like the oth­er ones too, but, ah, spring­time! I love it in the air, and in the blos­soms, and on my golf course, and on the cal­en­dar (yahoo, spring break!), and at my bar­be­cue grill, and in the behav­ior of the ducks and […]

DM’s greatest hits — vol. II

All of the fol­low­ing are quotes from pre­vi­ous blog posts: So maybe I have to change the text of the les­son: what I meant to get across in my class­room is that life is meant to be good. That is the inten­tion. Con­trast the hur­ri­cane and the vol­cano with the morn­ing dew and the evening sunset, […]

In praise of family

We buried Aunt Faith yes­ter­day. She was the last liv­ing direct rel­a­tive of Karen and her three sis­ters. She was a fine lady who affect­ed pos­i­tive­ly many people’s lives. I didn’t real­ize how much until I heard two of the nieces eulo­gize her at the funer­al. That got me think­ing about fam­i­ly. In praise of […]

Global Consciousness (What the world needs now…)

It’s time to wake up. If you think that God cares more about the fate of Amer­i­ca than He does the suf­fer­ing chil­dren in Syr­ia (or the chil­dren on the bor­der), you have lost touch with your Cre­ator. If you think cer­tain peo­ple mat­ter more than oth­ers, you have lost touch with your Cre­ator. If […]

Malmgrenisms

Okay, that is an ego­cen­tric post title, and not real­ly accu­rate. These are things I said over and over in the class­room (and on the ten­nis courts), and I said them in order to achieve a cer­tain effect. It wasn’t always noble, but I’m pret­ty sure it was most­ly affec­tion­ate. Malm­grenisms is a misnomer—most of […]

Slow Train Coming

I want to tell you about a mir­a­cle that hap­pened to me. Well, it didn’t real­ly hap­pen to me, but boy was it a mir­a­cle! When I first believed in Jesus in 1975, I was full of zeal and enthu­si­asm. So I began to pray for Bob Dylan—I loved him in my hip­pie days, and […]

Fear, Part Two

I wrote about fear in an ear­li­er post (I will be brave…a med­i­ta­tion on fear, Aug. 25, 2019)), but I want to address it again. I have learned that walk­ing with God does not mean that your fears will dis­ap­pear. Walk­ing with God will deter­mine how you han­dle your fears when they arise. That applies […]

Musings to my Lord on a Sunday evening…

–I think I get how infi­nite You are bet­ter than how per­son­al You are…I want both. Come to think of it, I bare­ly grasp how infi­nite You are. –My great­est fear is that I will let You down. –The only rem­e­dy for that fear is faith in You. –I used to wor­ry that I would be the rocky […]

Stormy weather

We’ve been hav­ing it all night long (wit­ness my golf course in pho­to). Don’t let any­body tell you Dal­las and San Anto­nio have the same cli­mate. This seems to be the norm up here, Decem­ber through Feb­ru­ary. I miss my old home. Which makes me one of the biggest wimps ever—the weath­er has almost zero effect […]

My divorce from Hollywood

It might be anoth­er symp­tom of old age. It has become more and more dif­fi­cult for me to sit through a movie, and to keep from won­der­ing, as I am sit­ting through, how much longer? To watch a movie in a the­ater height­ens the sense of dis­com­fort. If I pause a movie on my TV, […]

All as it should be…

Okay, that might just be a polite way of say­ing Adult Onset OCD. Hon­est­ly, I am one of the least com­pul­sive peo­ple I have ever met. And yet, as I get old­er, I find that I like cer­tain things to be a cer­tain way. Has my wife infil­trat­ed my inner being? (She read this and […]

Sports (spectatorial)

I just made that word up! But you know what I mean—watching, not play­ing. This might not be as rosy as the last one. It’s so easy to get obsessed with a sport; a team; a play­er. Not in some psy­cho way—you just think about them a lot. You become emo­tion­al­ly invest­ed in them. And then […]

Sports (participatory)

The instinct to com­pete runs deep in the human con­di­tion. That is some­times hard to rec­on­cile with a vibrant Chris­t­ian faith, know­ing that our call­ing is to put oth­ers before ourselves…which is why God invent­ed sports. Sports is one of the health­i­est exer­cis­es we can under­take in our quest for char­ac­ter-build­ing. Com­pe­ti­tion, in the best […]

Regrets, I’ve had a few…

We regret the things we don’t do more than the things we do.” –Mark Twain Well, it’s close. What about you? Do your “I wish I had’s” out­weigh your “I wish I hadn’t’s”? My list gets pret­ty exten­sive on both sides of that coin. My wife’s view of the “hadn’t’s” dif­fers from mine. If it was a […]

The Haircut

After 41 years my wife decid­ed she didn’t want to cut my hair any­more. I don’t blame her a bit—actually, I admire her deci­sion. She had done it so many times over that peri­od (I think I only went to a bar­ber once, when she was away). Cut­ting someone’s hair is a thank­less task, and […]