Blog Archives - Page 8 of 11 - Dallin Malmgren
2020
Stormy weather
We’ve been having it all night long (witness my golf course in photo). Don’t let anybody tell you Dallas and San Antonio have the same climate. This seems to be the norm up here, December through February. I miss my old home. Which makes me one of the biggest wimps ever—the weather has almost zero effect […]
2020
My divorce from Hollywood
It might be another symptom of old age. It has become more and more difficult for me to sit through a movie, and to keep from wondering, as I am sitting through, how much longer? To watch a movie in a theater heightens the sense of discomfort. If I pause a movie on my TV, […]
2020
All as it should be…
Okay, that might just be a polite way of saying Adult Onset OCD. Honestly, I am one of the least compulsive people I have ever met. And yet, as I get older, I find that I like certain things to be a certain way. Has my wife infiltrated my inner being? (She read this and […]
2020
Sports (spectatorial)
I just made that word up! But you know what I mean—watching, not playing. This might not be as rosy as the last one. It’s so easy to get obsessed with a sport; a team; a player. Not in some psycho way—you just think about them a lot. You become emotionally invested in them. And then […]
2020
Sports (participatory)
The instinct to compete runs deep in the human condition. That is sometimes hard to reconcile with a vibrant Christian faith, knowing that our calling is to put others before ourselves…which is why God invented sports. Sports is one of the healthiest exercises we can undertake in our quest for character-building. Competition, in the best […]
2020
Regrets, I’ve had a few…
“We regret the things we don’t do more than the things we do.” –Mark Twain Well, it’s close. What about you? Do your “I wish I had’s” outweigh your “I wish I hadn’t’s”? My list gets pretty extensive on both sides of that coin. My wife’s view of the “hadn’t’s” differs from mine. If it was a […]
2020
The Haircut
After 41 years my wife decided she didn’t want to cut my hair anymore. I don’t blame her a bit—actually, I admire her decision. She had done it so many times over that period (I think I only went to a barber once, when she was away). Cutting someone’s hair is a thankless task, and […]
2020
Marital balance
“And the two shall become one flesh, so they are no longer two but one flesh.” (Mark 10:8) I think about this verse a lot…is it a promise? Is it a command? It is obviously not literal, since Karen and I are still walking around in our own skins 42 years later. This is what […]
2020
Snakes on a Brain
My granddaughter Edith loves snakes. She has a big stuffed one that she likes to carry around with her. She has a more realistic plastic one that she enjoys setting in strategic places. She has lots of snake books. She thinks it is hysterical that I am afraid of them. I believe I know how that […]
2020
Abiding
“Abide in me and I in you. Just as the branch cannot bear fruit by itself unless it abides in the vine, neither can you unless you abide in me.” (John 15:4) I have often thought this verse expresses the key to a happy, victorious life. Happy? Victorious? I’ll bet that neither are words that […]
2020
Live music, then and now
I just finished watching Rolling Thunder Revue: A Bob Dylan Story by Martin Scorcese. O, what a role that man has played in my life (Dylan, not Scorcese)! I used to tell my creative writing students that someday our society would look upon Dylan’s body of work the way we do Shakespeare now. Hyperbole, certainly, […]
2020
Happiness is not a warm gun…
Forgive me, Father, for I have sinned. I have been a hypocrite. I hold to certain beliefs and principles, and yet I have acted contrary to them for my own self-interest. I have no justification for my actions. It all started with two handguns. They were owned by my father-in-law. They came into my possession […]
2020
Closing out 2019.
Introspection and retrospection. There’s some value in both activities as long as it’s a pause, not a stop. Was there any progress? Where do my loose ends lie? Do I still believe in resolutions—if so, what shall I resolve? As I get ready to meet my old friend Dry January, these are questions worth considering. […]
2019
www.dallinmalmgren.com’s greatest hits (the early years)
I never even thought about my parents having sex. In retrospect, I’m sure they did—there are six of us children and only occasional suspicions about parentage. –from The Birds and the Bees…(7/21/2013) To make a resolution implies that one is capable of change in a positive direction. As long as we operate on that principle, […]
2019
2019
The Neglected Fruit
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such there is no law.” (Galatians 5:22–23, NIV) Talk about the forgotten step-child. Forbearance gets no hype whatsoever. Nobody talks about it. Love makes the world go round—all we are saying is give peace a chance—we practice […]
2019
What I like and don’t like about Christmas…
It’s the most conflicted time of the year. Most eagerly anticipated by children—highly stressful to many adults. A time of giving and a time of adding debt. Worship and idolatry. Unconditional love and avid self-interest. Family traditions and perilous travel plans. Let’s face it—love and hate. My original plan was to write about what I like […]
2019
My Ten Favorite Books*
I always give books as gifts at Christmas. Yeah, mine is not the present that my loved ones are most anxious to open. But I look at my book gifts kind of like bait on a hook. You never know when the fish is going to strike, and there’s always a chance it could be […]
2019
Saving…a dying art
When I was young, we saved everything—the last blob in the peanut butter jar, the rubber bands on the newspaper, TV dinner trays, S & H stamps, even aluminum foil (if it was clean). We did that because: a) we might need it again; b) it was wasteful not to; and c) children in India […]
2019
For You
I’m just coming to the stunning realization that everything I do is for You. Every event in my life is designed to bring me closer to You. That is hardly ever my purpose, but that is always Your purpose. Not that I am a chess piece. I have absolute utter free will in every move […]
2019
My First Kiss
Part I Except for a brief homosexual crisis during my drug-addled era, I have always been comfortable around women. I like girls. They are generally better conversationalists than men. They almost always smell better. Then there is that sex thing… My first kiss was not consequential. It happened in second grade on the playground. Frankie Silvestri […]
2019
Illness strikes
“I need for something No, let me break it down again I need for something But not more medicine.” –from Ill With Want by the Avett Brothers The Malmgren Thanksgiving reunion ended on Sunday. There is nothing on this earth I value more than getting together with my three children, their spouses, and our six granddaughters. […]
2019
My thankfulness…getting specific
Most all of us are going to say the prayer…and mean it. We are grateful for the food, and for our families, and for our riches and comforts (we don’t usually say it that way), and for our country, and for being free to be thankful. That’s all good. Have any of you patriarchs (or […]
2019
The joyful journey
God enjoys us enjoying…I’m certain of that. No doubt, building our character is more important. Think of the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Who wouldn’t want those attributes? Doing right ranks higher than having fun. You can have fun doing wrong, but you can’t nurture the […]
2019
Mary Theresa Knox and my favorite jacket
Last Saturday night my son facetimed me. He was at a father-daughter camp-out, and while sitting around a campfire he told them of a ghost experience that I used to tell. A bunch of 8 year oldish girls were standing behind him, and they wanted me to corroborate the story. Which I did. Here is the […]
2019
What I can do (to live in Your presence)
*I can become a better listener. *I can give more of myself. *I can give Karen the space and nearness she needs. *I can press on in my devotions. *I can make more friends. *I can reach out to my past. *I can be a better, more trusting steward of Your generosity. *I can find more stuff […]
2019
The earth is flat…
There’s an NBA guy who said that—took a lot of scorn—but I get it. He was just looking at his world. Our perception of the earth equals our consciousness. It is not the same for all of us. We see what we see; think what we think; and believe what we believe…and constantly seek verification from […]
2019
The stages of my life
Because God always takes the long view. Think of how many events in your life seemed “live or die.” I’m being dramatic—I mean just mattered so intensely at that particular time in your life. Oh my, the crises I’ve gone through (real or imagined, internal or external) and how they shook me up—I once felt […]
2019
Dealing with the ego
I was a huge fan of Game of Thrones. Eight seasons to find out who was going to end up on the Iron Throne—what a concept! If you stopped to reflect, those characters were some of the most egotistical in the history of literature: Joffrey and Cersei and Stannis and, yes, Danerys—all driven by a […]
2019
I believe in You…not so much in me
That is the crux of my spiritual conflict. I get it. Jesus died for me. Believing in Him, I have life everlasting. I have been sealed in Him by the gift of His Holy Spirit. He is here with me right this minute. He offers me living water—the bread of life—abundant living. I see the […]